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Debunking 3 myths about prenups

New York State as of October 2017 has one of the lowest divorce rates in the United States. Approximately 12.9 married people out of every 1,000 divorced in 2016, giving NYS the fourth lowest divorce rate in the country. New York's neighbor, New Jersey, has the third lowest rate.

Despite these statistics, every couple should consider getting a prenuptial agreement before actually saying, "I do." Unfortunately, many couples forgo this important document. This can be extremely detrimental and costly in the event of divorce. While future spouses may not want to talk about the possibility of divorce, it is crucial to have this document completed before the actual wedding. In the event of a divorce it will be the document the court can look to for settlement.

3 reasons why you should not procrastinate on divorce

There's a strong possibility you're in no rush to divorce if you and your spouse have been living apart in Buffalo or elsewhere. In fact, many couples whose relationships have ended choose to go their separate ways and avoid divorce.

However, not getting a divorce when it's clear you and your current spouse are no longer interested in being together can cause problems. Not only does it give rise to financial complications, it can also have an impact on other aspects of your lives. Here are three reasons why a long separation may not be beneficial and a divorce may be the better decision.

How to get along with your spouse during the holidays

Under the best of circumstances, the combination of extended family dinners, gift shopping excursions and financial pressure make the holiday season a stressful time. If you and your spouse have been fighting more than enjoying each other, getting to January can seem all but impossible - but keeping the family together for the holidays is often a priority for both couples.

With the New Year comes the opportunity to pursue a new beginning, which may be with or without your partner. In the meantime, the following three strategies can help you face the holiday season with a brave face for your children and relieve some of the stresses that you and your spouse are experiencing.

College student co-parenting scenarios

No matter your circumstances or the ages of your children, co-parenting can be a delicate balancing act. When the children in question are college students, you may feel even more at a loss. For example, you might be wondering how much discretion should be left to a child when they are 18 or older.

Here is a look at some of the common situations co-parents of college students face: 

Mistakes to avoid in a divorce to keep you from losing it all

You may be in for a rude awakening if you think the biggest mistake you ever made in life is to marry your partner. Once you file for divorce in New York, you can never be certain as to what will happen, or the emotional reaction from your partner. What may have been an amicable split can turn into a situation that is full of stress, frustration and strife.

Often, neither of you wants the other to get their fair share of marital assets or custody of the children and pets. Either party may be willing to go so far as to consider not disclosing all of the assets and income to achieve their goal. This is a huge mistake that will lead to more litigation and problems. Before anyone gets too caught up in all the drama and games, review the following mistakes to avoid in divorce.

Back to school co-parenting strategies

Co-parenting is a wonderful skill that the best parents seek to master for the betterment of their children. Summertime can be hectic for divorced parents. The end of summer and back-to-school time can be particularly stressful for both children and parents.

The Huffington Post noted that there are several back-to-school issues that divorced parents should address to help their co-parenting plan continue to function smoothly - even if the parents live far apart. Keeping these helpful pointers in mind can help both parents feel involved and promote the happiness and well-being of the children.

When is legal separation preferable to divorce?

There is good news in the marriage world. Across the country, divorce rates are on the decline. In fact, New York Daily News reports that divorce rates are the lowest they have been in 35 years.

While divorces still occur, many couples are looking toward alternatives, such as legal separation. A legal separation occurs when two spouses have a settlement or property settlement agreement which resolves all their financial concerns and all issues regarding the children. The two spouses are still legally married, but the spouses live separately and have an agreement on the custody and visitation of their children.

3 tips for dealing with child custody over summer

The weather has warmed up and the kids are done with school. It's officially summer! When you have children, your daily routine gets upended during the summer months. It can get complicated planning a summer vacation, but it can become especially difficult if you are recently divorced and have to worry about your child custody agreement on top of everything else.

Your summer vacation is supposed to be fun and not full of fights with your ex about custody. Keep reading for some tips to deal with these problems head on so you don't have to worry about them down the road.

How an ex-spouse's criminal charge can change your life

No matter if you received your final divorce decree last month or 10 years ago, it can be a nasty surprise to learn that your ex-spouse has a criminal charge pending. It could be for DUI or DWI, embezzlement or something else altogether.

The point is that this charge has the potential to drastically change your life. Here's how:

Co-parenting considerations for summertime

When summer is in full swing, the days get longer and (hopefully) sunnier. This is usually a good thing, right? However, summer often poses challenges to some co-parenting plans. Even those plans that addressed summer may no longer work.

Schedules may very well have changed. Vacations may throw schedules off kilter. Perhaps the children have summer camps or other full-day enrichment programs that were not included in the overall scheme. Similarly, a parent may be off work during the summer and want the children during days that would normally be "off weeks" in joint custody situations.

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